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Built by Tony Babcock: working actor (Netflix, Amazon Prime, NBC), and the confidence coach trusted by teams at Microsoft and Hilton.
Rehearse the conversations that could change your life , before they actually happen.
A free, private room for thoughtful people who are ready to stop shrinking. Weekly rehearsal prompts, a free session with your AI scene partner, and a room full of people practicing the brave stuff together.
Free to join. No card. Leave whenever you like.
AI scene partner
meet your ai "SCENE PARTNER".
Practice the exact conversation you are dreading. The boss. The investor. The ex. The client. The parent. The employee you have to let go. Your AI plays them, in character, so it feels real. You rehearse. Tony directs. Tomorrow gets easier.
Five minutes, on your phone. The night before the big talk, or in the parking lot right before you walk in. As easy as leaving a voice note to a friend.
STEP 1. Name It
Describe who you are speaking to and what you are dreading.
STEP 2. RUN It
Our proprietary AI Actor, plays the real person, in character, so you practice for real, not in theory. Your director steps in with one note, then you run it again.
STEP 3. LIVE It
You have already lived the conversation, so when it is real you do not freeze, you adapt..
REHEARSE 24/7!
WITH TONY AI
AND THE REHEARSAL ROOM
Our proprietary tool has been trained* to be your director + an actor playing the role of anyone in your life!
Choose from our prompt library to handle common difficult convos or go freestyle.
*AI Tony is trained on the latest findings in attachment theory, interpersonal communication skills and a vast majority of Tony’s group coaching call transcripts, resources, frameworks and outputs.
In addition to studying, writing and dissecting thousands of scripts as an actor, director and writer, Tony also holds a degree in psychology and teaching and is certified in gestalt therapy, life coaching, NLP, Non-violent communication, forum theatre, and improv facilitation.
REHEARSE LIVE!
MONTHLY WORKSHOPS
WITH TONY
AND YOUR PEERS
Practice real-life scenarios with like-minded peers and get tailored guidance & direction from Tony.
HOW IT WORKS
THREE STEPS TO WALK IN "READY.
STEP 1. Name It
Describe who you are speaking to and what you are dreading.
STEP 2. RUN It
Our proprietary AI Actor, plays the real person, in character, so you practice for real, not in theory. Your director steps in with one note, then you run it again.
STEP 3. LIVE It
You have already lived the conversation, so when it is real you do not freeze, you adapt..
The Prohibition
Your Moment got driven underground.
You are the person everyone calls when they need advice. Then your own moment arrives, the boundary with your partner, the big pitch in front of all the execs, the "hello world, here's my new thing and I finally believe in my damn self!", and suddenly...
...you cannot find your voice.
Not because you are broken. You were never broken. You've just been wearing a mask because it felt like the only way to stay safe, and no one ever handed you a room where you could take it off and practice being fully yourself.
...until now!
The METHOD
WHY REHEARSAL BEATS ADVICE.
Every other "confidence coach"
hands you advice, quick 'tips' and a script.
That is why your confidence never lasts.
In the age of AI, "info" flows on tap like water.
You don't need more info. What you need is a repeatable practice that will ACTUALLY get you ready for life's real conversations and hard moments...
...by rehearsing them first.
Actors solved this a hundred years ago.
They do not read a line off a card and hope. They rehearse the scene, out loud, in the body, with a director, until it comes out free instead of frozen.
That is the craft I've used on film sets for Netflix, Amazon Prime, and NBC. It is the one I've taught to top CEO's at Microsoft and Hilton Hotels..
It's exactly what you will use on the boss, the boundary, the pitch, and the person you love.
You do not need another script.
You need a dress rehearsal. And a director in your corner.
The MOMENT
For the capable one who still rewrites the text
17 times.
You want to be taken seriously without becoming louder, harder, or someone you're not.
You have a pitch, a boundary, a hard conversation, or new venture to share that has been living rent-free in your head.
You would practice, if only you had a safe room and someone to play the other side.
You can be heart-led and powerful at the same time.
This is where you stop pretending to be smaller than you are.
The EFFECT
Ready. STEADY. RESPECTED.
Ready
Walk in prepared
You have already lived the conversation.
STEADY
Calm nervous system
Your body knows what to do.
RESPECTED
Received for who you are
People finally hear the real you.
And the part we cannot help ourselves with: you leave lighter, and you laugh.
Time to value
Here is how
fast this moves.
Today: you join and run your first rehearsal.
Tonight: you practice the conversation you have been avoiding for months
Tomorrow: you walk into the room you used to dread.
This week: you rehearse three real conversations with your AI scene partner.
This month: the moments that used to freeze you start to feel handled.
The RECEiPTS
PEOPLE WHO WERE DONE BEING TALKED OVER.
"This is a shining Emerald of guidance."
"I've done all lot of great coaching programs, this is the best one I have ever been through, I don't say it lightly this is a shining Emerald of guidance. WOW!"
- Saul Falcone
"One of the best decisions I’ve made in life"
"This has been so damn amazing I cannot even begin to explain!! Thank you so much!! One of the best decisions I’ve made in life is the fact that I have joined this no word of a lie!!"
- Nicole Denner
"I have regained my confidence in myself"
"I have regained my confidence in myself, restarted my goals I’d let slide and learned a lot about myself in the process."
- Kaeli Michelle
The DEETS
What you get When you step inside.
YOUR FIRST HOUR
The UNMASK Workbook
Find out the mask you've been wearing, the one convo you've been avoiding, uncover your opening line, and put the real moment on the calendar!
MONTHLY WORKSHOPS.
Practice real-life scenarios with like-minded peers and get tailored guidance & direction from Tony.
The Rehearsal Room.
ur proprietary tool has been trained* to be your director + an actor playing the role of anyone in your life!
TONY AI.
A Director & Coach in your pocket. Spiralling before a call? Get a quick reframe, a tool, and a nudge in seconds.
The PROMPT VAULT.
Plug-and-play setups for the boss, the parent, the client, the raise, the boundary, the breakup. We've got you!
The COMMUNICATION TOOLKIT.
Powerful tools for setting boundaries, making requests, or naming feelings so the other person can actually hear you.
The REGULATION TOOLKIT.
Calm on cue. The stage-fright tools, the panic-to-calm reset, the Joy Tap, a full-body meditation, and the small rituals that steady you before you walk in.
The Private Community.
The whole reason a room is worth walking into: the people in it. A warm crowd of clever, kind, heart-led humans practicing the brave stuff together. No pressure, no performing.
Ready to step inside
Month to month. Cancel anytime, no hard feelings.
Prefer to feel it first. Try a free rehearsal.
What this replaces.
Cancel anytime.
MEET YOUR DIRECTOR
Tony Babcock
A media expert, keynote speaker, and confidence coach with over twenty years in entertainment and coaching. A working actor with credits on Amazon Prime, NBC and Broadway On Demand, and a speaker for global organizations including Microsoft and Hilton, Tony bridges performance skill and business strategy.
He helps high-achieving professionals stop acting like extras and finally step into the leading role.
WHEN YOU WANT MORE
WHEN YOU’RE READY FOR MORE REPS.
Some members want more. Unlimited rehearsals, a live monthly rehearsal with me, and the full toolkit.
That lives inside, in Speakeasy+. You’ll find it when you’re ready.
BEFORE YOU DECIDE
Frequently asked questions.
Is it really free?
Yes. No card, no trial clock, no catch. The Speakeasy is free to join and free to stay in.
What actually happens inside?
Each week there’s a new rehearsal prompt. You can run one free session with Rehearse First, your AI scene partner. You’ll find the SPOT training series in the Learning tab, and a room of people to share your wins with.
Do I have to be confident already?
Please don’t be. This is built for the capable person who still freezes when it’s her turn. You just have to practice, somewhere safe. That’s the whole thing.
Is this therapy?
I’m a coach, and this is a room for practice. Think flight simulator for hard conversations. If you want deep personal work, a good therapist is gold. If you want to walk into Tuesday’s conversation ready, that’s us.
Is what I share private?
What’s said in the room stays in the room. Like anything online, don’t paste truly sensitive things like passwords or bank details.
COME ON IN.
Your first rehearsal is waiting.
Rehearse first.
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