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Confidence. Visibility. Performance.
Not a motivational talk.
A transformational experience.
“On the final day of our Calm the Chaos live event, we experienced a profound shift that resonated deeply within me. Gathering virtually with like-minded individuals, I felt surrounded by a sense of unity and purpose that was truly inspiring.”
“Do you want to be a better you? Do you want to improve how you show up in your life? If the answer is truly YES, then this event is a no-brainer. Even if I never work with Tony Babcock again, my life has already transformed—and will continue to improve—because of what I learned in Calm the Chaos.”
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What You’re Booking
Tony doesn’t give speeches.
He creates confidence experiences.
Each event is designed to help audiences:
> Reconnect to themselves
> Release fear around visibility
> Show up powerfully in real moments that matter
This is where mindset meets embodiment.
How Would It Feel If
You (or your Team) Could:
> Speak with clarity and authority at work or on stage
> Build deeper relationships without overthinking
> Lead without needing external validation
> Trust your presence instead of questioning it
This level of confidence is not reserved for “naturals” or extroverts.
It’s learnable.
It’s trainable.
And it’s absolutely possible for you even if you’ve held back for years.
BUT...
The Hard Truth (And the Hope Most People Never Hear)
The unfortunate truth is that many people never step into the confidence they know is possible for them.
Not because they lack ability.
Not because they aren’t smart, capable, or worthy.
But because they start believing the story that something is wrong with them,
that they’re “just not confident,” that they’re too quiet, too intense, too emotional, or too much.
After years of coaching people through confidence, visibility, and presence, across leadership, relationships, and life. I’ve learned something important:
Lasting confidence doesn’t come from fixing yourself.
It comes from activating what’s already there.
And it only takes two things to create that shift.
1. A Spotlight Moment.
2. Immersion in the Right Environment.
Event Types
Keynote Talks
For conferences, leadership events, and organizations ready for impact.
Interactive Workshops
Hands-on experiences that activate confidence,
not just discuss it.
Live Intensives & Retreats
Deep, immersive work designed for real transformation.
Availability is limited and curated.
Let’s create a confidence experience your audience will remember.
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Hard TRUTHS: Prophetess Amanda Kunkel on Channeling, Shadow Self & Middle Class Frequency
EPISODE 7
Hard TRUTHS: Prophetess Amanda Kunkel on Channeling, Shadow Self & Middle Class Frequency
Show Notes:
Episode Title: Hard TRUTHS: Prophetess Amanda Kunkel on Channeling, Shadow Self & Middle Class Frequency
Host: Tony Babcock
Guest: Amanda Kunkel
Episode Overview
Prophetess and Psychic Business Mentor Amanda Kunkel joins Tony Babcock in a conversation about what happens when the truth you channel isn’t the truth your client wants to hear. Starting with a gripping real story of staying in the channel under fierce pushback, Amanda and Tony explore fire, shadow selves, the middle class frequency, and what it truly means to own your spotlight.
Key Takeaways
Hard truths delivered with love are the greatest gift you can give a client
The simmer boil is more powerful than the rolling boil: channel your fire, don’t explode it
The middle class frequency keeps you comfortable and capped; full potential lives outside it
The saber-toothed tiger fear is ancestral: being fully yourself can feel like exile, but it’s the path forward
Owning your shadow self unlocks the fire your business actually needs
You don’t have to defend yourself. Let people be wrong about you
The God state is accessible to everyone; you don’t need a channeler to connect to it
Quotable Moments
“Stay. Stay.” The message Amanda received mid-channel as her client pushed back |
“When I think I’m being a bitch, I’m most likely still over giving.” Amanda Kunkel |
“The algorithm doesn’t matter when you are in your full inner God state.” Amanda Kunkel, Live Channel |
“Let people be wrong about you.” Amanda Kunkel |
About Amanda Kunkel
Amanda Kunkel is a Prophetess and Psychic Business Mentor with over 20 years of experience in intuitive guidance. A former management professional with Fortune 500 companies, she has been brought into coaching containers to identify the deeper personal and energetic blocks keeping entrepreneurs from their next income level. She writes a column for Brains magazine and offers a free God State Meditation for beginners.
Find her: https://www.amandakunkel.com/ • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amandakunkel4444/
Episode Timestamps
00:00 Cold Open
01:16 The Client Who Pushed Back
02:46 Staying in the Channel Under Pressure
04:12 Fierce Loving Guidance
05:01 Processing After the Call
07:18 People Pleasing vs. Truth-Telling
08:37 When the Client Came Back
09:29 What Amanda Learned About Herself
13:46 Holding Truth Without Bending
15:42 The Title Prophetess
17:22 Prophetic Dreams at Age 14
20:34 The Middle Class Frequency
23:24 The Saber-Toothed Tiger Fear
25:58 Owning the Shadow Self
27:28 Let People Be Wrong About You
27:42 Hot Seat Questions
31:15 Live Channel for the Audience
36:14 Free God State Meditation
Resources Mentioned in this Episode
Guest Resources:
Amanda’s website: https://www.amandakunkel.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amandakunkel4444/
Free God State Meditation
Brains Magazine Column
Book referenced: Not Nice by Dr. Aziz Gazipura
Tony’s Resources:
Discover your speaker style (AI quiz): spotlightconfidence.com/speaker-style
Spotlight Speakeasy: https://spotlightconfidence.com/the-spotlight-speakeasy
Book Tony: https://spotlightconfidence.com/book-tony
Heather Lowry’s ADHD Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1bKZo8y2ro/
Connect with Tony Babcock
Instagram: @tonybabcockofficial
TikTok: @tony.babcock
Facebook: Tony Babcock Official
LinkedIn: Tony Babcock
Main Website: tonybabcock.com
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