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Confidence. Visibility. Performance.
Not a motivational talk.
A transformational experience.
“On the final day of our Calm the Chaos live event, we experienced a profound shift that resonated deeply within me. Gathering virtually with like-minded individuals, I felt surrounded by a sense of unity and purpose that was truly inspiring.”
“Do you want to be a better you? Do you want to improve how you show up in your life? If the answer is truly YES, then this event is a no-brainer. Even if I never work with Tony Babcock again, my life has already transformed—and will continue to improve—because of what I learned in Calm the Chaos.”
“Thank you SO much to Tony Babcock and the entire team behind Calm the Chaos. This is the best program I’ve ever experienced—like a shining Emerald of Guidance from OZ!”
What You’re Booking
Tony doesn’t give speeches.
He creates confidence experiences.
Each event is designed to help audiences:
> Reconnect to themselves
> Release fear around visibility
> Show up powerfully in real moments that matter
This is where mindset meets embodiment.
How Would It Feel If
You (or your Team) Could:
> Speak with clarity and authority at work or on stage
> Build deeper relationships without overthinking
> Lead without needing external validation
> Trust your presence instead of questioning it
This level of confidence is not reserved for “naturals” or extroverts.
It’s learnable.
It’s trainable.
And it’s absolutely possible for you even if you’ve held back for years.
BUT...
The Hard Truth (And the Hope Most People Never Hear)
The unfortunate truth is that many people never step into the confidence they know is possible for them.
Not because they lack ability.
Not because they aren’t smart, capable, or worthy.
But because they start believing the story that something is wrong with them,
that they’re “just not confident,” that they’re too quiet, too intense, too emotional, or too much.
After years of coaching people through confidence, visibility, and presence, across leadership, relationships, and life. I’ve learned something important:
Lasting confidence doesn’t come from fixing yourself.
It comes from activating what’s already there.
And it only takes two things to create that shift.
1. A Spotlight Moment.
2. Immersion in the Right Environment.
Event Types
Keynote Talks
For conferences, leadership events, and organizations ready for impact.
Interactive Workshops
Hands-on experiences that activate confidence,
not just discuss it.
Live Intensives & Retreats
Deep, immersive work designed for real transformation.
Availability is limited and curated.
Let’s create a confidence experience your audience will remember.
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Drag Queen Tynomi Banks on Confidence, Boundaries & Owning Every Room (& Collab with Nelly Furtado)
EPISODE 4
Drag Queen Tynomi Banks on Confidence, Boundaries & Owning Every Room (& Collab with Nelly Furtado)
Show Notes:
Episode Title: Drag Queen Tynomi Banks on Confidence, Boundaries & Owning Every Room (& Collab with Nelly Furtado)
Host: Tony Babcock
Guest: Tynomi Banks
Episode Overview
Are you ready to stop waiting for permission and start owning every room you walk into?
In this electric episode, host Tony Babcock (Netflix actor, Hilton Hotels speaker) sits down with the iconic Tynomi Banks, performer, recording artist, drag superstar, and the unofficial Miss Congeniality of Canada's Drag Race.
From dancing for legends like Deborah Cox to recording music with Nelly Furtado, performing across the world, and building a residency in Puerto Vallarta, Tynomi shares what it really takes to create success in the spotlight.
But this conversation goes deeper than drag, music, and billboards.
It’s about confidence. Boundaries. Reinvention. Knowing your worth. And refusing to let the world decide who you get to be.
If you’ve ever struggled with imposter syndrome, shrinking yourself, or waiting for someone else to validate your greatness, this episode is your reminder that the spotlight is already yours.
What You’ll Learn
How to walk into any room and shift the energy without saying a word
Why discipline and play is the secret combo behind every great artist
The real, unfiltered truth about "making it" in the music industry
How to advocate for yourself when the world wants to repackage you
Why your biggest "failure" might actually be your biggest unlock
The difference between confidence on stage and confidence in life
How to silence imposter syndrome and remind yourself you're "that bitch"
Why following your joy isn't selfish, it's strategic
The Spotlight Moment
🌟"Where's Sheldon?" The moment Nelly Furtado would clear the room before showtime to recenter with her dancers.
🌟The Corporate Wake-Up Call: Sitting in a basement office, no light, no joy, and asking herself "what makes me happy?"
🌟The Four Billboards: Looking up at Dundas Square and seeing herself everywhere, and realizing how often we forget to honor our own moments.
🌟The Drag Race Lesson: How not winning sent her into a spiral, then rebuilt her with deeper self-knowledge.
🌟The Mantra: "The spotlight is serving me."
🌟The Closing Truth: "You're the only person that believes in yourself, and you're the only person that can unbelieve in yourself. Don't block yourself."
Episode Timestamps
03:26 – From Sheldon to Tynomi
08:36 – Walking Into the Room
06:22 – Working with Nelly Furtado
35:27 – Confidence + Boundaries
43:44 – Failure & Growth
45:43 – The Spotlight Mindset
Resources Mentioned in this Episode
Instagram: @tynomibanks
Spotify: Listen to “Die for Love” https://open.spotify.com/track/1tyhB5... + featured tracks
Live Show: Every Sunday at 9 PM at The Palm Cabaret and Bar in Puerto Vallarta
Connect with Tony Babcock
Instagram: @tonybabcockofficial
TikTok: @tony.babcock
Facebook: Tony Babcock Official
LinkedIn: Tony Babcock
Main Website: tonybabcock.com
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